We are so used to giving, doing, and putting everyone else’s needs above our own.
We take care of the kids, the husband, we support our parents. We go to the store, cook, clean, schedule doctor’s appointments, take the children to school, show up for every important date, wash, iron, buy new clothes because the little one no longer fits in the old ones… and the list goes on and on.
Honestly, women carry a role that money simply cannot pay for.
But between so many responsibilities and the desire to always be there for everyone, we often forget the second greatest commandment:
“And the second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
— Matthew 22:39
Loving others—yes, we do that every day.
But there’s a detail we often overlook: “as yourself.”
And you? Have you loved yourself lately?
Think about it: When was the last time you took care of you?
- Did you go for a walk?
- Did you eat well?
- Did you visit your gynecologist?
- Did you do something just for yourself?
Maybe you don’t even remember the last time you invested time or care into yourself.
And that’s the problem… because the commandment does not say “love your neighbor more than yourself,” but “as yourself.”
- If you don’t take care of yourself, you won’t be able to take care of others.
- If you don’t have your health, how will you support your family?
- If you’re not well, how can you keep giving your best?
Caring is important…but caring for yourself is essential.
