One of the most beautiful things in life… is when you no longer have to beg for love.
A love that gives you your place.
A love that never makes you question how much you are wanted or valued.
A love attentive to your needs—one that listens, calms you, and quiets your insecurities instead of awakening them.
A love capable of saying:
“I don’t like it, but I would do it for you.”
A love that truly wants to know you, that walks with you through highs and lows, that sees you for who you are—not just for what you can offer.
A love that doesn’t just give you company, but a companion for life.
Unfortunately, for many, that kind of love feels like something that only exists in fairy tales.
Many have never known it…and settle for the bare minimum:
a “sorry, I forgot to text back,”
a “it was just a kiss,”
or a “that night was a mistake.”
They accept crumbs just to stay close to the table.
Today, many women have lowered their value to maintain a relationship that is draining them— a relationship that steals their peace, their energy, and their essence.
But stop for a moment and ask yourself:
Is it worth staying in something that makes you doubt your worth as a woman?
Maybe it was the lack of love in childhood, rejection from others, or the wounds of past relationships…
But here is a truth that never changes:
People only give you what you allow.
Every time you put someone else’s needs above your own,
you taught them that yours don’t matter.
Every “yes” you gave when you wanted to say “no”
was a way of abandoning yourself.
And without realizing it, you fall into a cycle of accepting things simply out of fear of not being accepted.
But woman… the Bible says:
“A virtuous woman, who can find? She is far more precious than jewels.”
— Proverbs 31:10
A virtuous woman.
That is who you are: strong, wise, hardworking, compassionate; a woman who inspires and guides her family and community.
And God says you are more valuable than precious stones.
Do you realize what that means?
People today fight for lands full of gold, silver, and diamonds—yet the Creator of all of it declares that you are worth more than all of that.
God knows your value and wants the best for you.
But you must recognize it too.
When you do, you will find someone who treats you as you deserve—the way Christ loves His church.
Beautiful, isn’t it?
Remember: people only respect the boundaries you set.
And the most powerful change begins when you decide to acknowledge your own worth.
To close, imagine that feeling…
when the person you love most looks at you intently.
It’s as if the world stops around you.
In that moment, it’s just the two of you.
Your eyes shine.
You feel at peace.
Everything makes sense.
That is true love: it doesn’t consume you—it completes you.
“Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.
Husbands, love your wives and never mistreat them.”
— Colossians 3:18–19
